I have never debated before, online or offline, on whether relationships should be free of love-making or not; I am not a moral teacher and I believe whoever that is 18 years and above, living in Nigeria is an adult by the laws of the land. This implies that I cannot judge whoever is of the opinion that relationships should go with love-making; in the same sense, I cannot give names to people who feel that love-making should never be part of relationships too! To each, his or her opinion!
At this point, it is important to note that it is very annoying to see how some ladies campaign for No-s*x relationships without considering the level of the authority they use in campaigning for this. The truth is that you cannot be in Moscow and expect not to feel cold!!! Below are the categories of ladies that do not deserve a No-s*x relationship:
1) Ladies who cohabit: How can you be staying with a guy and all of a sudden, you wake one morning to tell him that you want the relationship to be free of s*x? Did you smoke grass? So what have you been thinking all these months/years? You think you can just convince him to lose what he has been ‘eating’ all these years just like that? Except you are breaking up if he disagrees; don’t cohabit while thinking of No-s*x relationship!
2) Ladies who depend on men for their daily resources: You want a No-sexie but you want to chop his cash? Demanding unnecessarily from guys surely makes you vulnerable to s*x. You can ask sometimes from male friends when in need; after all, what are friends for? But you should not make it a favourite hobby! Ladies who do this do not deserve a No-sexie!!! There’s no difference between the one that stands in brothels and you!!!
3) Ladies who do multiple dating: Don’t you think it is very unfair to deny Akporode s*x while giving that same stuff to Emeka? Most often than not, when some girls tell you that they want a No-sexie, it doesn’t mean they are out of it. It could mean that they have stopped it with you and started it with someone else!!! A lady must prove herself worthy of it. Anything far from this should sincerely be seen as counterfeit! . If you have not been faithful in the past, how do we tell whether you would be faithful to the guy if he eventually agrees to the No-s*x situation? You surely lack the authority to campaign for this. Trust is earned, it can never be commanded!!!
s*x is an important issue in a relationship which must be seen as one! Don’t be too emotionally carried away that you would outrightly condemn it when you in person lack the authority or platform to do that! In law, they say ‘He who comes to equity must come with clean hands’. In romance, they say ‘He who comes to No-sexie must come with a good stand or authority to back it up’!!!
Let’s call a spade a spade! Let’s not call it ‘that instrument that is used to dig the soil’!!!
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